help me get back on the road!

[RC944]

everything was going so well until the 3s 11.1v lipo in my tranny decided to run out of puff. its the first time since ive had the tranny and the battery hence ive never had to deal with this before i thought a simple charge on the bantam bc6 would sort it but alas nothing is ever that simple

the battery has what look like 3 jst xh type female connectors; one with 2 holes, one with 3 holes and the other with 4 holes. as i only had an align / dualsky balance board with my charger i bought a polyquest one with an adaptor lead. i plugged the three pin female connector on the battery to the male end of the adaptor lead and the female connector on the adaptor lead onto the 3s male connector on the balance board.

needless to say once i tried to fire up the charger for it to determine battery config i get connection break message

now ive read that you cant charge using balance board only but my question is what leads do i need that i can run from the charger (from the positive and negative outputs next to the balance lead connection on the charger) to the battery?

any help appreciated as im getting major withdrawal symptoms!