Tie rod woes

[mark79]

Can someone tell me which way round the tie rods should be to stop them slackening/tightening with the suspension movement.

I realise the notch is at one side to help identify if its on right but i want to check before i go crazy.

Which side should the notches be when looking at the rear suspension from the rear?

Which side should the notches be when looking at the front of the car head on?

And finally, when looking at the steering rods from above with the rear end towards me, which side should the notches be?

Thanks in advance!