The DNX408 shock seals can be used in place of the X-rings. I'm surprised you're having them leak without even running though, sounds very odd indeed.
Problem 1 and 3 sound to be the same thing. I'd check your slipper pads are properly located in the spur gear if you're having too much friction as a skewed slipper shaft wouldn't really give you loads of friction?
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