[Chrislong]

Dude, if you were not there to bail him, what would happen?

Simply take care of yourself, if a user comes to you then so-be-it and take it on - but don't bail somebody out. Heck if redundancies come around you want to be the one they want to keep - right now im guessing they don't realise that as your busybailing out. Just think how much more focus you can put in to what you do if you weren't bailing?

What I tend to do, if it effects me, like it might you. Is point out the obvious for all to see "You've screwed up mate, can't fix it? I'll do it, leave this alone & just go bugger something else up and i'll fix that later too".